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Sexual phenomena often hold a mystical allure, especially when they remain unexperienced and enshrouded in hearsay. Squirting, for many, occupies this realm of elusive sexual milestones. But today, we're lifting the veil on this topic to provide clarity and guidance on how to achieve squirting, with the help of one of our favorite toys.
Squirting refers to the release of fluid from the vagina before, during, or after orgasm. This fluid can come from the Skene's glands among other sources, and it's important to understand that squirting is not the same as urinating. Research has confirmed this distinction, dispelling any misconceptions.
The ability to squirt has been a contentious subject among experts. Some argue that anyone with a vagina has the potential to squirt, while others suggest that anatomical differences, particularly regarding the Skene's glands, may prevent some from achieving it. The size and exact location of these glands can vary significantly, which may impact one's ability to squirt. Though the phenomenon requires further study, understanding what triggers it and whether it's universally attainable remains a subject of fascination.
Absolutely. If squirting is within your realm of capability, the right dildo can act as a catalyst. But what exactly constitutes the "right" dildo, and how should it be used to aid in squirting?
When choosing a dildo for squirting, look for a curve and a pronounced, rounded head made of a firm material—be it glass, steel, wood, plastic, or stable silicone. Here's why:
Once you've selected your ideal dildo and acquired some lubricant, it's time to embark on your squirting journey. Here are some tips to help you begin.
While individual experiences may vary, these general suggestions can serve as a roadmap to discovering the art of squirting.
It's easy to bypass arousal in pursuit of a specific goal, but this step is essential. Arousal isn't just about pleasure; it's also about comfort and physiological readiness. To facilitate squirting, being turned on is a significant advantage. So indulge in whatever stirs your desire—be it mood lighting, erotica, visual stimulation, or intimate touch.
Just as with partnered sex, foreplay enriches the solo experience. Consider using a vibrator to stimulate other erogenous zones before introducing the dildo. You might also apply lubricant to the dildo and tease the inner labia and vaginal entrance to heighten sensitivity.
Before bringing in the dildo, familiarize yourself with your G-spot using your fingers. It's a spongy area located on the front vaginal wall, a couple of inches inside. Experiment with different movements—'come hither' gestures, tapping, circles, or rubbing—to find what resonates with you.
When you're ready, lubricate and gently insert the dildo, using it to locate and stimulate the G-spot. Replicate the motions that felt good with your fingers, and if you lose the spot, don't hesitate to revert to manual stimulation before trying again.
Consistent pressure on the G-spot is key. Nicknamed "pushing the button," this action is crucial for squirting. Remember, the only pressure should be on the G-spot, not on yourself. Exploring new sexual experiences can be intimidating, but take it at your own pace and with an open mind. If you're concerned about the mess, cover your bed with towels or a waterproof sheet to ease your worries.
There's no definitive guide to squirting as each person's body responds differently. Experiment with techniques, positions, and even different dildos to discover what works best for you. Embrace this journey as a fun exploration of pleasure rather than a strict mission.
Even if squirting remains elusive, the process itself can be immensely pleasurable. Choose the right tools—like a curved, firm-headed dildo—and focus on enjoying the experience. Remember, sexual satisfaction is not solely about the end result, but about relishing the exploration.
Ready to embark on your squirting quest? Insdy offers a vast selection of dildos, lubricants, and accessories to support your adventure. So dive in, and let the journey to squirting begin!