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While we often dissect every detail of sexual techniques like the perfect blow job, some aspects of sex, like thrusting during intercourse, tend to be under-discussed. Thrusting, particularly when you're on top, is a key part of sexual pleasure that deserves more spotlight. So let’s dive into the mechanics of thrusting, how to keep it enjoyable, and explore specific techniques to elevate your experience.
Thrusting is the quintessential motion of penetrative sex, characterized by an "in and out" movement. Whether with a penis or a dildo, thrusting can be performed by the penetrating partner, the receiving partner, or both. Despite its simplicity, there's a surprising lack of detailed guidance on the subject, even from exhaustive resources like the Kama Sutra.
There are a plethora of techniques to enrich your thrusting, many of which are straightforward yet incredibly effective.
One simple adjustment can transform your experience: placing a pillow under the hips of the bottom partner. This not only increases comfort but also grants accessibility and introduces new angles for heightened pleasure.
Beyond continuous movement, stillness has its own erotic potential. In this technique, the penetrating partner inserts fully and presses deeply into their partner, pausing there. This stillness builds anticipation and arousal, making the return to active thrusting all the more intense.
More than just "in and out," churning can amplify sensation with minimal movement. Once inserted, the top partner can use their hips to rotate the penis or dildo in circular motions within the vagina or anus. For an intensified effect, the penetrating partner can manually move the base in circles.
Specific to penis-in-vagina sex with the penetrating partner on top, the Piercer focuses on the angle of penetration. With the receiving partner lying straight, the top partner positions themselves higher and penetrates parallel to the vagina, stimulating the clitoral area with each controlled thrust.
While deep thrusting has its merits, there's also pleasure to be found in shallower movements, which can enhance comfort and endurance. Varying thrusting depth is a simple way to explore different sensations.
Also called the "Taoist Thrusting Technique," this method varies thrust depth to deliver maximum pleasure:
After completing the sequence, you can mix up the pace or reverse the sequence. The key is to focus on the variation and progression rather than precise counts.
Deep thrusting can also be immensely satisfying when approached with care. Begin slowly and ensure both partners are sufficiently aroused to avoid discomfort. When on top, it's crucial to remain attuned to your partner's comfort level.
With a myriad of thrusting styles to explore, there's no shortage of ways to enrich your sexual encounters. And if you're eager to further enhance your sex life, Insdy offers a vast array of adult sex toys, lubricants, and more to fuel your adventurous spirit!