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When it comes to anal sex, whether it's with a toy, fingers, or a penis, there's one non-negotiable: Lube. Lots of it. The golden rule of any anal encounter is more lube than you think you need, then add some more. Unlike the vagina, the anus doesn't self-lubricate, making lube not just a necessity for comfort, but also for safety to prevent tearing and injury.
When selecting a lube for anal play, look for a thick, long-lasting formula. You'll want something that won't dry out quickly and can provide a cushion-like barrier for added comfort. Sometimes you may not find these qualities in one product, but fear not, we've got strategies to keep you well lubricated.
Stay clear of lubes with numbing agents. Though products containing lidocaine or benzocaine might promise pain-free anal play, pain is a crucial indicator that something isn't right. Numbing the area could lead to unnoticed injury, which is the opposite of safe and pleasurable play. Always opt for sensation-preserving lubes.
Water-based lubes are popular for their compatibility with sex toys and condoms. They're also easy to clean and don't stain. The downside? They can dry out, requiring reapplication. For anal, choose a thick water-based lube like Insdy Water Based Anal Lubricant or Wicked Jelle Water Based Anal Lubricant, and consider those with added ingredients for longevity, such as Pjur Back Door Water Based Anal Lubricant with hyaluron.
Oil-based lubes may not be condom-friendly and can stain, but for certain situations—like toy play or with non-latex condoms—they're ideal. They're creamy and long-lasting, perfect for an area that doesn't self-lubricate. Consider options like Doc Johnson's Anal Lube for its thick texture and pump dispenser for easy use.
Silicone lubes offer endurance since they don't dry out. They're also waterproof and condom-compatible. However, they can damage silicone toys and require soap and water for removal. Some great choices are Wicked Ultra Silicone Based Intimate Lube or Pjur Backdoor Relaxing Anal Glide with jojoba, which helps relax the anal muscles without numbing.
Combine the benefits of different lubes with lube layering. Apply a base layer of silicone lube for durability, then top with a thick water-based formula for cushioning. Even if the water-based lube dries out, the silicone base will keep things smooth.
For those with sensitive skin, choose lubes with minimal ingredients and conduct a patch test to avoid irritation. Sliquid Sassy and Wicked Simply Aqua Jelle Lube are excellent thick water-based options that are kind to sensitive skin. For silicone lubes, hypoallergenic choices like Wicked Ultra Silicone Based Intimate Lube, Sliquid Silver, and Pjur Original Super Concentrated Bodyglide are all safe bets.
Arming yourself with the right lube is crucial for enjoyable and safe anal play. With the variety available, you can ensure that your anal experiences are as smooth as they are thrilling. Check out Insdy's selection of adult sex toys and lubes to find all you need for your next anal adventure.